Love is..

Love is - When...


Since a very long time ago, people have searched for the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In a survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But what do little kids know about love?
Read on and be surprised that despite their young and innocent minds, kids already have a simple but deep grasp of that four-letter word.
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"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smile to each other."


"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."

"Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings."


"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."


"You can break love, but it won't die."


"Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsome then Robert Redbird."


"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you."

Impulsion

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things and old one did.

You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

When Wedding Bell Rings ...

Yesterday, i have proposed to my guy about my tentative wed expenses that we both should think of it ..I know he good in figure and OMG ..he seems like to rob a bank . hehe

I first start with the big picture and then work my way down to the details. The first issue I need to think about, as it will effect the rest of my wedding planning, is money.

My reason is that i want a simple wedding but ...when look at the good , services that may encounter , it really costs.no matter how simple we want it.

Wedding is one of the most important days of your life, and of course i want to splurge a little to make it special . ..I know it takes time and effort . I just want everything to be memorable . .

Butterfly Lovers

when i was young, i watched this movie and i really can't forget the stoy because its really my me tears and feel awesome . Butterfly lovers is a chinese legend about the tragic romance between two lovers . The legend is sometimes regarded as Chinese equivalent to Romeo and Juliet .

...Begin ...

The legend of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai is a beautiful, doleful, and moving love story .The story is set in the Eastern Jin Dynasty.
It begins with a beautiful, intelligent young woman named Zhu Yingtai from Shangyu, Zhejiang, who is the ninth child and the only daughter of the wealthy noble Zhu family. After much effort, she convinced her father to let her disguise herself as a young man traveling to Hangzhou to study. During her journey, she encountered Liang Shanbo, a scholar from Kuaiji (會稽, Kuàijī, now known as Shaoxing), in the same province. They felt like old friends at the first meeting. Therefore, they gathered some soil as incense and took vows of brotherhood in the pavilion of a thatched bridge.

For the three years in school, they shared the same room where there was only one bed and two quilts. Yingtai slowly fell in love with Shanbo. Although being every bit Yingtai's equal in studies, Shanbo was a bookworm and did not see any traces of female characteristics in Yingtai.
Time flew by quickly. Three years passed, and one day Yingtai received a letter from her father asking her to return home as quickly as possible. Yingtai had no alternative but to pack her belongings immediately and bid farewell. In Yingtai’s heart, she had decided that even if heaven and earth passed away, her love for Liang Shanbo would never change, and she wanted to be with him for all eternity. Hence, before her departure, Yingtai revealed her true identity to her headmaster's wife and requested the headmaster’s wife to hand her jade pendant as a betrothal gift to Shanbo.

Liang Shanbo, being Yingtai’s sworn brother, accompanied Yingtai for 18 miles to send her off. During the journey, Yingtai hinted to Shanbo that she was a girl. For example, she compared themselves to a pair of mandarin ducks, but Shanbo did not catch onto her hidden meaning and did not even have the slightest suspicion that she was a girl. Finally Yingtai thought of an idea: she told Shanbo that she would be a matchmaker and match make Shanbo with her sister. Before the two parted, Yingtai reminded Shanbo to pay a visit to her house so that he can propose a marriage to her "sister" (who was really herself). Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai reluctantly took leave of each other at the pavilion where they had first met.
When Shanbo arrived at Yingtai’s home, he discovered her true gender. They were devoted to and passionate about each other, and the lovers vowed that if they cannot live together, they will die together. The joy of the reunion of the two came to an end when Yingtai told Shanbo that her parents had forced her to marry Ma Wencai (馬文才, Mǎ Wéncái), a rich and spoiled gentleman.
Liang Shanbo was heartbroken. His health slowly deteriorated until he became seriously ill and later died in his office as a county magistrate.

On the day Yingtai was to be married to Ma Wencai, whirlwinds prevented the wedding procession from escorting Yingtai beyond Shanbo’s tomb. Yingtai left the procession to pay her respects for Shanbo. Yingtai descended in bitter despair and begged the grave to open up. Suddenly there was a clap of thunder, and the tomb opened as Yingtai had wished. Without hesitation, Yingtai leapt into the grave to join her beloved Shanbo. Yingtai and Shanbo's spirits had turned into a pair of beautiful butterflies and emerged from the tomb, flying together among the flowers forever, never to be apart again.

Here ...tears will flow.....

Imagination and Dreamers

" Imagination is more important than knowledge" -Einstein

" Imagination rules the world " -Disraeli

Many of us like to imagine whether in terms of ambition, life partner , financial wealth or etc.

i dont like other who have "little black book " who wrote everthing.....but now i realize , i should have it .

My last year resolution, i had wrote 9 resolutions in a year to achieve...suprisely , i have achieved 5 items of it ! yes , its true...everything should be in piece so that we can imagine the flow and method we target .

We need a good imagination in order to learn quickly and easily . Imagination is the key to all learning and all problem-solving , and hence the Edisons and the Einsteins of this world have all the had excellent imaginations .

A good imagination is also important for a good memory. This is one reason why older people often report having bad memories -they have let their deteriorate such that their mind will no longer create pictures which will 'stick' in their mind .

Why i'm learning and say about this? because im learning to relax my body and mind .

Everything stards as a dream. Stand by your dream. As the song says "if you never have a dream, you'll never have a dream come true. "

Humour -Like or Dislike?

What else can i do to make people love me? How to make people surround me feel happy about me?

it is true that laughter is the best medicine for all??

From the perspective, when we laugh , all kinds of wonderful things happen to benefit our body and mind . Endorphins are released in brain which give natural high and our respiratory system gets the kind of work-out that it may get from jogging .

Laughter relieves pain . I can only laugh when i relaxed and the less pain i feel ; funny books or movie are the ideal pain relievers .

But sometimes i hate humours that can make me down...and for me only selected humours i can accepted . Different people are different terms of acceptance. hehe

The art of being happy involves being able to laugh at difficulties as soon as possible after they happen . But , only fews people can do this ..

From time to time..the elements of miserable is my aim to avoid .

My life is all about serious yesterday....but i knew it doesn't make me feel good when i grew up .

When we having fun , we feel better , we work better and people want to be around us..

Dealing with Depressions

Hi..its been for a month i didn't write this blog..doesn't mean that i don't have any happy news to post..its just a stop for a moment for me to continue my aim to be happy like others...

Eveyone of us goes through times when life seems extremely difficult- we are left alone, we can't pay the bills, we have lost our jobs, we have lost a loved one. At these times we wonder how we will possibly make it through the next week. Somehow we usually do!

It is possible to lose our perspective, and to paint the picture gloomier than it really is.

i always asked myself...am i learning from what has happened to me??- series of serious discussion with my loved guy, i believe that from my thought time -i'm learning.

goes on and goes on .

The happiest people tend to be able always their hard times as a valuable learning experience...Smile on their faces, everything will merge for better .

Probably the greatest way to feel better about myself is i do something good for somebody else.

Excessive worry wasn't good and i try to eliminate this feeling.. The moment i start happy...i can look my love will grow and shine . Is is automatic . simple and wonderful.

Thanks to my dear who give me the meaning of sharing of love....and i knew how much you try to make me feel like this .--You are the Love of My Life -

How to be Happy

today , i would like to share some tips how to be happy ...
1. Chase for your dreams
2. Smile with your heart
3. Share with others ( not poligamy ok fiza)
4. Help your Neighbourhood
5. Keep your spirit alive
6. Accept everything
7. Calm under pressure
8. Humour is the Best
9. Forgiving People
10. Love and couple
11. Cooperation
12. Appreciate every moments with your loved one
13. Trust yourself
14. Respect others
15. Treat yourself
16. Explore your world
17. Brave to take risk
18. Money is not everthing

Forgiving Ourself

Today topic is about forgiving ourself . If forgiving others is difficult , forgiving ourselves is even harder . Many people spend their whole lives punishing themselves mentally and physically for what they believe to be their own shortcomings. Some over-eat, some under-eat like me, some drink themselves into oblivion , some systematically destroy all their relationships, some live a life ot poverty or sickness. At the root of this suffering can be a belief system which says, " I am guilty ," " I don't deserve to be happy,'' ...or many more expression.

You may be surprised at how many sick people there are who are not convinced that they deserve to be healhty and happy!
If you are feeling guilty, I would suggest that you have put yourself through enough. Why prolong it? If you were to feel gulity for an extra year or two, you woudn't help things.

Throw out the guilt . Not that it's easy to throw it out. Maintaining a healthy mind takes a lot of effort as does maintaning a healthy body . It is worth the effort .

I can conclude - it is our choice whether we get on with our life and live in the now , or whether we chain ourselves to grudges and upsets of the past .

Forgive and forget

Smart tips to save energy money

Are you one of those who've always wondered abut your high electricity bills? Have you ever suspected that you've been overcharged for power yo're never used? OR did you really use that power , and if you did, how can you learn to save power so that you can save on your electricity bills?
Energy efficient tips are really quite smart and simple. First , you need to the appliances with high -energy consumption that you own. Things that generate heat, like the air conditioner , water heater, electric flask , and slow cooker are known as energy-killers. All you need to do is use these appliances efficiently so that your energy costs go down .

One of the best ways to save your power bills is to use less air conditioning .Did you know? Each degree cooler or warmer increases your energy use by 5% . Having this in mind, setting the AC thermostat to around 26 celcius makes the temperature 'just nice' without consuming too much electricity .

Likewise, if you must the water heater for showers, make sure that the temperature is not set too high. Hot water is expensive ,and colud also scald your skin , or cause it to turn dry .
Even laundry habits can be modified to help you save money. Do not use hot water to do your laundry . Operate your washing at full load . Plan for yourself to do all your ironing at one go instead of several times a week .

Replace all light fixtures in the house with enery saving bulbs. I f you don't like coming home to a dark house, then use timers, or install motion detectors for added home security . And of course , turn off all lights and electrical appliances when not in use.

"Public Mutual -My first Unit Trust "

My blog today will paste up few interesting comment on what people say about Unit Trust .

First Comment from the consultant blog or if you wanna to know more please click at http://www.irwan.biz/public-mutual-my-first-unit-trust/


"Assalamualaikum Razdi,I’glad to hear that you interested to invest in unit trust but there there’re rules that you’ve to follow if you want ton invest in this fund.1. It’s a medium and long term investment advise to hold at least 3 years and above.Average return from Public Mutual fund on average is from 40 % an above depend on time of current market you invest. Like now when the market is down this is the best time to invest. investment in unit trust is like plant a durian tree, it take a few years to grow but we can harvesrt the fruit until the tree die.So if you want to know the profit in a year you better put in ASB or buy direct shares..mutual fund can’t guarante the exact profit but it can give more than you expected if you are willing to wait.
For your info ittikal fund performance since launch 97 is about 250 % growth.If you need to know more just email to me at userd1414@yahoo.com "

2nd comment :

" I enjoyed reading every single comment on financial planning topics. BTW, what does ‘financial freedom’ mean? And is there any difference between unit trust and mutual fund? Similar mechanism?
Unit trust industry is still new to me. It caught my attention after a local newspaper reported that EPF investors suffered a loss of RM600 million. Wow! That’s a lot of money… Just imagine for those investors who going to retire in 2 or 3 years time. Do you think that they could recover their initial investments? Anyway, these are some of the questions came to my mind and it makes me become more and more interested in unit trust…
I’ve been working for approximately 3 years and I realised that I haven’t made any savings or investments since then. I’ve to start investing / saving now…"

3rd comment :

Assalamualaikum…
"Saya tak pandai sgt berbahasa English, malu jugak nanti takut tersalah bahasa. tapimasih teringin nak komen sesuatu di sini. Sebelum ni memang tak tahu langsung apa itu Unit Trust or Public Mutual Sampaila one day saya di approach by one of the Public Mutual unit trust consultant. At first saya cuba invest EPF, tapi lepas tgk keuntungan yg dapat naik geram pulak so saya cuba cash. bermula dengan RM1000. Alhamdullilah.. pulangan dia memang diluar jangkaan tak macam ASB yang disimpan RM1000 bila nak keluarkan pun RM1000. No capital gain. Memang tak menyesal. Sekarang saya dah tambah investment sebanyak RM10,000. Tapi apa yang paling menakjubkan tentang Public Mutual is my agent. he updates me almost every months and her service is one of the reason what I luv about public mutual. And she also pretty.. heheheh but that not the issue. The issue is Public Mutual will always be my choice. Banyak my friends yang masuk Swiss Cash kind of big talk previously. And they even laugh at me. Well look whose laughing now…."

4th comment :
"wow! this is fantastic! i’m so glad to get in touch with you people! i’ve been looking around looking for some guidance in finances, and i found you. my deepest gratitude for the replies. actually, i do not have EPF. i invested with PIADF following the advice of my agent. when i got an extra 1,000 i immediately decided to call an agent friend. i had no idea what unit trusts were, but i knew it may be better than just keeping the amount in the bank. he explained to me what it means to invest in PIADF, and he said its moderate risk. so i said ok. do you think i should stick with my current fund, or should i switch?
more success to all of you! thank you so much for sharing!"

Happy investing from me!

"Is it a good time to invest?"

Have a pause a bit on my blog topic-worrying.
Now's let me explained how unit trust can make u happy until your age of retirement .

Someone asked me whether it is a good time to invest in unit trust funds given the current market condition.
First of all, the stock market is volatile, which means it will always go up and down. I mean, has anyone seen a market that continues to stay up for many years?
Secondly when the market is down, it is a good time to buy.
Unfortunately people have the tendency to panic. Once they see the market going down, they sell their funds. And a lot of time they sell at a lost because they sell at the wrong time i.e when they are making losses.
Ideally the best time to buy is when the market is really down and sell when the market is high up. But who can accurately tell when the market is at its down low or at its all time high, before the situations take place?
Unit trust investment is about buying units (hence the name unit trust). When you buy at a lower price you get a lot more units (compared to buying at a high price per unit). And if you sell when the market is up you get a lot more profit.
One way to invest around the volatility of the stock market is to practice the “dollar cost averaging”.
What it means is to top up your investment or in other words buy regularly. The ideal situation is off course to buy every month. In EPF’s case, its members are allowed to withdraw every three month to top up their investments.
When the market is down and you have the financial resources, take advantage ot it! Buy more units as you will get more for less. Look at it this way, when the market is down the price per unit for most funds are low too. Think Mega sale!
And once you’ve reached your target, sell. And sell when the market is doing well.

Be yourself

Hi....welcome to my blog!

In this blog , i only focus with topic related to worry and how to become happy .

Why ? Because i have knew most of us are still searching for this elements .

Even we are satisfied with our works and life now...but sometimes its can lack.

I have read fews books about this topic and I strongly believe what has written by the writers will heal our soul and make us more confident and learn to accept any weaknesses and strenght -simultaneoulsy we won't be able to sad anymore...

Suggest to all of my readers, to read " Being Happy" by Andrew Mathews and " "How to Enjoy your life and your job " by Dale Carnegie .

Ok.Lets start with the Seven Rule of How to Stop Worrying and Start Living .

First rule : Be Yourself ( Remember , Nobody in this world are same with You )

This is a story about Paul Boyton , which at that time a Director of a company , explained on the biggest mistake that a person did in their job application.

He is expert and had been interviewed more than 60, 000 candidates and he is the writer of book title : 6 Ways to Get a Job .

The most common mistake - dishonest . Even though candidates are suppose to be honest to all their answers, but always they gave the answers what they think should be .